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The Power of Forgiveness
August 22, 2004
Dina
Dear Friend,

“Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

Malachy McCourt.

Studies have shown that not forgiving others can lead to health problems. A 1999 study at Hope College showed that when subjects remembered past negative events their blood pressure, heart rates, and muscle tensions were higher when in unforgiving conditions than in forgiving conditions. Everett Worthington, executive director of “A Campaign for Forgiveness Research”, an organization that funds forgiveness research, was quoted in the October 23, 2005 issue of USA Today saying, “Chronic unforgiveness causes stress. Every time people think of their transgressor, their body responds." He goes on to say that chronic stress affects the immune and cardiovascular systems. Forgiveness reduces stress by replacing negative emotions with positive ones.

Think about whether there are some areas in your life where you may be holding on to some resentment toward someone. Consider that it only hurts you. The object of your resentment is blissfully going about his or her own life without a thought about you and your pain or "hurt feelings".

Choose forgiveness for you health and well being. Remember that forgiveness is for YOU. It does not mean you condone the behavior. It does not mean you have to tell the other person you forgive them. It does not mean you have to have a relationship with them. It just means that you choose to release yourself from the power the other person has over you so that you can go peacefully and joyfully about your life.

From Leaves of Grass
Walt Whitman
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“I hear and behold God in every object, yet understand God not in the least,
Nor do I understand who there can be more wonderful than myself.

Why should I wish to see God better than this day?
I see something of God each hour of the twenty- four, and each moment then,
In the faces of men and women I see God, and in my own face in the glass,
I find letters from God dropt in the street, and every one is sign’d by God’s name,
And I leave them where they are, for I know that whereso’er I go
Others will punctually come for ever and ever.”

-- Walt Whitman

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Wings of Awareness is pleased to present Life Coach Sheila Allicon with two new seminar offerings this fall. Love 101 for couples is a fun and sometimes serious look at the love relationship. This 4 week program is for any couple that would like to improve communication skills and fall in love all over again!

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Sheila M. Allicon PLC is a graduate of Coach University and previously worked as a counselor and special ed teacher. Ms. Allicon has been a professional life coach for over 7 years. She has been featured in newspaper articles and has been published in "Today's Coach".

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